During the last week, Maria Guidobono He recommended watching the movie (Thing) , and Thursday, April 28, 2011, on the radio program (Focus on you ...), gave us his analysis of it, from the perspective of Counseling. Luciano
Hello, folks. "Thing" is the movie. Whether repudiation or acceptance, the bond filiatorio leaves mark on our life and it happens to the protagonist of this movie, I hated the life of the mother and revered father's life. What brand footprint of origin can be recognized in our life?
the protagonist changes his life, leaves his home in the city, her boyfriend and a job promising to respond to the mandate of caring for her father and mother had a terminal illness. This crisis raises a change in family roles: daughter suddenly becomes wife becomes a mother after the parents, and takes care of them.
The protagonist suffers because he had fallen idealization of his father, he was perfect for her, good father, good husband, great career, it all comes down, and also suffers because he believes the deluded mother and a life mediocre not understanding how to be happy in that circumstance.
crisis gives you the opportunity to connect from another location with their parents, can get to know them in depth and accepted as they are, their mistakes, successes, in his humanity, is it possible that there is a real find if you do not accept the other unconditionally? What is to accept unconditionally? Are adhering to what the other does? No, is to see that the other is different from mine, and as in this case the child becomes aware of his parents' marriage contract, covenant partner, with which she disagreed and suffering, but his parents had chosen so that and were happy. In other words, unconditional acceptance is also this: respect the choices and covenants of the other, however much one disagrees.
There was much pain in this family, the positive is that the protagonist makes an internal process, grows and is allowed to drop the idealization of the parents, because it is an adult and could generate resources to deal with reality, seeing his own brand of origin does not preclude recognized as different and unconditional acceptance from the link leads to a more profound and authentic with their parents.
the movie is strong, but that's life, and is good to know that there are things more important than we thought. Vos, and find out??
Well, folks: the next movie will be "Letters to God."
Maria Guidobono
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