Jealousy in couples: Jealousy in a proper measure can be a condiment to help promote positive aspects of a relationship, but when they make an exaggerated form, not only can undermine the link, but also may indicate aspects of the personality of any member of the couple, that to overcome them would need to seek help. What is jealousy? Are a sense of fear of losing the person we love. When you charge a certain intensity in a person, can influence the reality is captured in a distorted way ... Sometimes jealousy is unfounded and not based on what the person suffering knows, but what you think. The motive of jealousy may be referred to several aspects. Low self-esteem, leads to a lack of confidence in oneself, self-devaluation, and this can make you the person who is not your partner level, by both the fear of loss is constant can also ... be related to its history, divorced parents, infidelity situations between their parents. The person may have had experiences where they felt "cheated" ... felt betrayed true affections, in which fully trusted it. leaves its traces. Education also received some messages that have been internalized as their own can lead a person to act in a possessive way but by believing what is right and assume control over a partner assures fidelity in love and permanence. What to do with jealousy? But the first step to improve this instance is that the jealous person can recognize itself as such. It is also necessary to talk in a couple of jealousy to sit down and clarify misunderstandings. It should This we can not control or own people. That love, affection, interest to be with someone not something that can "handle." If the couple feels that this situation is accentuated in intensity and continuity, it is necessary to seek professional help. In a process of counseling the couple or person will be escorted to review that aspect of the personality of each network have gone to certain levels of discomfort and suffering. Work to restore confidence in the other, achieving self-reliance first, assessment and self-confidence. And in this journey of "awareness", to feel and recognize that love is not possessing, that affection to be authentic and genuine, it must be and feel free. Taffarelli Clr.Graciela
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