During the last week, Mary Guidobono see the movie you recommended (I have something to say) , and Thursday, April 21, 2011, on the radio program (Focus on ...), you gave us his analysis of it, from the perspective of Counseling. Hello
Luciano, folks. "I have something to say" is a film that allows us to think about the family secret, its link with the genuineness and unconditional positive acceptance. "had to like women as please me," says the father
"if you do what they tell others not worth living," says the grandmother.
"more silent tired to say what one thinks," says the aunt.
"I have something to say, thirty years I have been hiding" - says one of the children, ahead of his brother.
Everybody knew everything, but do not dare to assume. Again the issue of mandates and the other's desire not meets, or to be satisfied until they can no longer be.
Al scapegoat, in this case the older child will stop all evil, all family not clarified, and that is why when the pot is uncovered everything looks upset. The seen as "sick" in any case is the healthiest. For others, or are submissive (as the case of the mother) or have lived all their lives under the mandate family (as did the grandmother whom he married was not in love because they are not encouraged to do so with his brother), Aunt is an alcoholic because he could not overcome a history of love, the daughter has to take care of his daughters, even though you want to work (after it succeeds) the parent who says that is correct has a double life. In other words, everything is quiet, it's all because of that child are encouraged finally to say what happens, which has since its authenticity its history, who he is and not what others want it to be. The funny thing is that his brother told him he would say the same, and he also appears across a similar story. It's a kick to open the road, yet close it, because that shows the drama of our hero who already knew the consequences of being authentic in the family. I do not mean how to resolve the stories, because I would like to see the movie those who did not see it yet.
I'm interested in this perspective, consider the family secret that can be phantasmatically surrounding our lives that may be hiding and silencing many cries of freedom, which can act to our detriment, and may have clues that we missed, thinking about what is best for everyone. But a good system of communication within the family, to their children an upbringing that has to do to be accepted as you are and accepting the other, is the first step towards better health.
Friends, I say goodbye until next time, where we will be reflecting on the movie "One True Thing"
Mary Guidobono
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