During the last week, Maria Guidobono He recommended watching the movie (Letters to God) , and Thursday, May 5, 2011, on the radio program (Focus on you. ..), gave us his analysis of it, from the perspective of Counseling.
"Letters to God" Mary Guidobono Analysis
Hello friends. The movie this week is "Letters to God." Oscar
allows us into the world of children, their fantasies, which are increasingly turning to cope with the harsh reality of knowing that you have a few days of life, understand that a children, even children can understand what is happening, and is entitled to know what happens, to comment on the treatments they are doing, to complain, to mourn, to feel anger about his illness. Most people believe that children have rights, do not understand, are not able to understand and so I hide things, things that directly concern them, thinking so they will not realize, however, the opposite is true . The child as adults we have to offer the possibility to handle in symbolic, what happens in this case, the creativity of Rose (the woman who accompanies Oscar in his last days) means that he can talk about death, their fears, and can be expressed through letters to God, all his desires and fears. It is a bridge also allows professionals and parents (without knowing Oscar) learn what is happening inside. His parents are surprised by the processing capacity that has the boy to his own death, an ability that the parents were not. By
a game that happens to Rosa, Oscar can live their last days as if each were a decade and feels that going through and living life stages, which otherwise could never have live obviously, because each stage will relate experiences, questions, answers, deceptions and disappointments, but also gives you the happiness of fulfilling their desires. OK
unconditionally to a child, is just what he did Rosa, you can connect with him and they assume that the disease was serious and that he had little time, did not deny nor renounced all that all that because he could overcome his own fears and taboos about death of a child, in order to help that child and accompany him in this important process.
I leave as a phrase Exupery (author of "The Prince") "Children have to have much patience with adults."
friends, next week, in tribute to our beloved Sabato recently left us, we will reflect on "The Tunnel," based on his book.
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